September 2019 "Why are you Here?"

What I'm Thinking - "Why are you here?"

Ever since I told people nearly 4 years ago I wanted to study abroad I've been hearing variations of this question. Why leave for so long? Why now? Why so far away? Why Korea? They're not bad questions and I don't mind hearing them, but I can't seem to answer in a way I feel satisfying, because the closest I can get to the truth is, "I don't know."

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"Why did you come to Korea?" seems an easy question, but each time it comes up I babble on and on, hoping some meaningful explanation will just fall out. After hearing the question enough times some of my answers started to sound pretty legitimate, "Because I want to understand what it means to be human better; because I feel a strange affinity for Korean culture; because I want to understand why so many are drawn to kpop and kdrama…" Later, after my commitment to Korea became more serious, my answers did too. "Because I want to eventually become a professor and teach students there's multiple ways to be human; because I'm interested in Korean identity and how it's used by individuals to relate themselves to other nations; because the world is increasingly intercultural and a mutual appreciation and understanding between nations is necessary for a peaceful future..." yadda yadda yadda

The above explanations aren't untrue, but the truest answer of I don't know seems like a cop-out, even to me. Isn't it childish to make such an extraordinary commitment—three years away from the physical support of family and friends—without some really good reason for doing so?

Well then, I'll be childish. When I think about Korea I'm happy. When I make new observations about the culture I'm over the moon. When I realize how much of the language I've learned I feel fulfilled. When I sit for a moment and realize I'm in Korea I'm simply delighted. I don't feel there's any way I can articulate a complete answer for why I feel this way—I just do.

This life I'm living now is a gift, and I will study well not because I have some grand plan of how to use my degree, but because I want to thank God for giving me a desire to love Korean culture and a means to fulfil it. I'm not perfect at it. I'm often too cynical and frustrated and conceited and critical, but that's life I guess. I'm not sure why I'm interested in Korea. I'm not sure why I came to the country. I'm not sure why I've been given anything in my life at all. Perhaps all will be clear when I'm old and grey; the heavens will open and I'll think "Aha! So that's why I went to Korea!" but I don't think so.
Side by side, Taking up the same space, Experiencing the same thing

I've always been sensitive to what others think of me (my parents can attest) so being in Korea and knowing my looks set me apart is endlessly frustrating. I always feel I'm not all the way here. The impression others have that I'm unfamiliar with Korean culture and language coupled with my own insecurities hold me back from experiencing life here as I wish I could.

My favorite times have been when people treated me as if it was just as natural for me to be there as it was for them, an example being when I sat in the park and a pre-school class came by. They spoke and played as they pleased no matter who was nearby. Or that time an old woman mistook me as Korean and asked for directions. Or when I enjoyed performances by Korean artists where no one tried to translate anything for my sake, and the other concert-goers laughed and enjoyed right next to me. Side by side, taking up the same space, experiencing the same thing.

Overall I can't change how others see me (or how I think they see me), so I have to start conversations first and act like I belong without caring whether others agree. The more I do maybe the more I'll feel here. And Now the Fun Stuff!

What I'm Reading - 라뗴가 가장 맛있다 (Lattes are the most delicious)

One of my favorite pages from the book!

I kinda gave up on the whole Harry Potter thing for now, and instead went on a quest for a simple, less fantastical book. What I discovered was a trendy art journal about things the author likes, such as coffee, design, and travel. It's full of simple, everyday language and lots of adorable drawings. I finished it a couple days ago and was SO proud! It also rubbed off on me and I began a journal of my own (though without the art. I'm not so good at drawing so I use stickers instead.

What I'm Listening to - Dean and Kisnue and 하헌진(Ha Hyunjin)

Ha Hyunjin and Kisnue two indie bands I was able to enjoy this month. It was my second time seeing Ha Hyunjin, so I guess you can consider me a groupie now. 😂

Kisnue was recommended by a musician I follow on Instagram. I wasn't originally planning to go, but suddenly had the urge to go out after a long day of studying, and invited my new friend Kim along. The venues were small and only cost the price of a drink to enter, so it was fun AND cost effective! Dean is HUGELY popular these days, both inside and outside Korea. He's one of the recent R&B artists that blew up through songs like Instagram and I'm Not Sorry. One of his new releases, Howlin' 404 has an MV where he sings acapella, showing of his vocal control. I have a friend who's seen him three times in the last month. I'll have to ask if I can go the next time she does!

What I'm Watching - All Shook Up

The Yonsei musical club put on a performance of the 2005 show All Shook Up, complete with 1950s attire and Elvis Presley songs. The production was incredibly well done, and the actors displayed all the bravado and showmanship of Elvis himself!

What I'm up to - Photos

I'm trying to fill a notebook with things I'm grateful for every night. On the morning of this day I got to speak with my parents (and kinda my cat too), which always puts me in a good mood!

The area around where I live, called Sinchon, is a popular destination for food, shops, and performances, so when I go even to just get groceries I often have to weave through groups spending the afternoon on the town. Sometimes the place is packed for festivals or famous busking performances, like when the singer Paul Kim came (above). It's fun to be around so much activity sometimes, but I like my nights in just as well.

Yonsei's most recognizable building, from a distance because I felt awkward taking a picture.

September cafes

A poem I found while reading about the history of Buddhism and Confucianism in Korea

Desk view

On the way to Membership Training. The Graduate Student Association members prepared an overnight outing of fun to help us all get to know one another.

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